Letting go after a break up can be the most arduous part in a relationship, sometimes even torturous depending how long the relationship lasted. Putting time and effort into someone and then to see it all fall part is the primary explanation of why some people have such a difficult time letting go. In other circumstances, people are fearful of starting the dating process again, and want to dodge it at all costs.
Through my experiences, I have discovered that the only real way to let go is to give it time. Yes, it is brutal. Especially when thoughts of your ex-girlfriend/boyfriend arbitrarily pop into your mind like a bad song when you least expect it. You instantly start to feel the emptiness again and unfortunately, this leads to compulsive behavior. You get the urge to call your ex and tell them you miss them or check up on them. This is my friend, is the road to Dooms Ville.
First, you must comprehend that you broke up for a reason. If there hadn't been a dilemma, there wouldn't have been a breakup in the first place. Once you come to terms with that logic, you are one-step closer to letting go. Stop yourself from making that one text, or sending that email. If you were the "dumpee", you are only making yourself look desperate. It won't be the right time to start dating, but it is time to get out and start meeting new people. Your friends will ease the process of a break-up immensely. You might be thinking, "Well, what if my ex calls me?" In the case of the "dumpee", its okay to respond, but don't get your hopes up.
Typically, the only reason why the "dumper" is trying to make contact with you is to make sure you are miserable, while they are out hooking it up with other people. It's strange, but in most cases, the "dumper" feels that even though they broke up with you, you shouldn't be seeing other people. If your breakup was mutual you might have a chance of rekindling the relationship, but it's not always the case. Be aware of the situation. As the saying goes, "There are plenty of fish in the sea."
Life is short. Don't squander time crying over someone who is most likely not shedding a tear for you. There is always someone else waiting out there in the same boat as you. Unfortunately, there is no guarantee that this will never happen again. It's life. The more you date, the more breakups you will have, and the easier it will become to let go.
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